Featuring Matthew Whelan, director of admission, St. John's University (Queens, NY)

Q: I've visited my two favorite colleges a couple of times, but I feel I need to tour each one again before making my decision. How many college tours is too many?

A: Your question reminds me of the dilemma many families face when they decide to move to a new town. Moving anywhere is a big step -- especially if you plan to live there awhile. So it might not surprise you that some families will take the old "drive-through" tour of a town or neighborhood many times before deciding to actually move. They check to see what the neighbors are like, whether there are swing sets on the lawns (sure signs of other children), even the location of local stores. After all, you have to feel absolutely certain your comfort level is high before making a move.

You guessed it: The same is true when choosing a college. You have to be sure it's the right fit for you. Remember, if you live on campus, the college you choose will be your home for at least four years. And, even if you commute, your academic experience will only be successful if you feel comfortable with the campus, people, and facilities.

So, there's really no such thing as one visit too many. You should take as many trips as you need to feel comfortable. In fact, most colleges and universities realize this, and are more than willing to accommodate your needs.

The best place to start is with the annual Open House that most schools hold for interested students to get a feel for the campus and its population. These events usually include campus tours, "Majors Fairs," opportunities to speak with students and faculty, and informational sessions.

During the academic year, most admission offices offer regular campus tours. Use this opportunity to visit student residence halls and at least one dorm room; observe classes in session; view libraries and other facilities; and speak with students, faculty, even deans.

Some universities even hold "shadow days," which allow you to follow a student ambassador through his or her regular college routine. At St. John's University, for example, the Office of Admission offers a full schedule of these opportunities so interested students can sit in on classes, visit rooms in student residence halls, and even enjoy a free hot lunch at one of our cafeterias. Of course, the Office of Admission also encourages students and parents to schedule personal campus tours throughout the academic year, providing a strong sense of life at the university.

No matter how many times you visit a campus, make sure you take advantage of all the information offered by the admission office. When it comes to learning about a college's policies, people, and traditions, these professionals are often among the most knowledgeable people at a college or university. Listen carefully to what they say, and don't be afraid to ask any questions on your mind.

Now, let's consider your question again: How many times should you visit a college? As many times as you need in order to make a sound decision.

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